Why we are like this

We prayed to almighty in summer for rain but when it rains heavily, we take out our umbrella rather enjoying in rain. Human mind does not know what they want and they do not know what summer rain means. We talk about unity in diversity but when it comes to our city, our place we praised our city like heaven rather praising about our nation. Therefore, nation is big or city is big. Still a mystery for me. We told our children’s do what you want to do in life but when it comes to chose career. We want our children’s to become engineer or doctor rather thinking about what they really want to do in life. Then a tragedy happens in child life and he does not know where he will going to land up after 12 years of education. 

We say love is all about emotions and two people who love each other should marry but reality is different. True lovers do not meet and we end up marrying each other lovers. Human dilemma increases when two lovers of same sex start loving each other. I do not know what is wrong in this. There life, there decision why whole world is behind them. Let them do what they want to do in life. We say change is constant but when change took place, we always resist. This happens everywhere (from organisation to a newly married couple) and at every age. 

Our whole life keeps on changing starting from our childhood stage to old age and knowingly or unknowingly, we keep on changing. Resistant came in early stage but in later stage it became a habit. Human mind enjoy habit. Whether is drinking habit or love making habit. Change is still a mystery for many. Difficult to solve but sadly everyone knows the answer of this mystery. My biggest question is why we are like this. Does anybody have the answer?